tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7080431201453058606.post7050211628356868633..comments2016-10-20T10:19:03.437-07:00Comments on Chalamti: I have dreamt.: Unwelcome ExposuresBenjy Lhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/18199119640511269953noreply@blogger.comBlogger3125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7080431201453058606.post-82489464171551289722011-01-11T21:43:03.868-08:002011-01-11T21:43:03.868-08:00The best friend of a guy I was kinda dating accide...The best friend of a guy I was kinda dating accidentally outed me to a girl in my former Orthodox community...goyim just don't understand the mythical power of Jewish Geography...I was freaked out for like a week, but it appears she kept it there. If it had extended much beyond her, I'm not sure if I'd be hearing from the community any more. Good luck with that encounter! Hope you post about it.Questioning Yidhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13420965649570370274noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7080431201453058606.post-79295146011526759752011-01-11T21:34:53.922-08:002011-01-11T21:34:53.922-08:00Yeah, approaching her is in the works. It's fr...Yeah, approaching her is in the works. It's frustrating because I know I'd like to be fully open about my sexuality and not have "being outed" an issue. I do not think the entirety of the Orthodox world is ready for that.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7080431201453058606.post-4007545085080793502011-01-11T21:29:31.519-08:002011-01-11T21:29:31.519-08:00I've been outed a few times unexpectedly by ot...I've been outed a few times unexpectedly by others. Its always really uncomfortable, awkward, and terrifying. I think emotional rape is a reasonable description. If you're close enough to her to say something, it might be useful to explain to her how hurtful and damaging that can be and that she really needs to guard her speech.Questioning Yidhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13420965649570370274noreply@blogger.com